EMPATHS AND NARCISSISTS
The attraction comes from the same wound
Yet I love to analyze myself & I realized that being an empath doesn’t make us naturally kind & understanding
Being an empath is a coping mechanism same as being a narcissist is an other coping mechanism
The narcissist will control it all & try to feel worthy by playing with extremely emotional people (cause they don’t feel anything) & will enjoy to destroy them, in order to feel alive & superior, or feeling a power over others in order to fill their own emptiness
Yet we often see the empath as the victim. Yet the empath isn’t born empath. He became an empath also as a coping mechanism from childhood
An empath has been raised in a atmosphere that was dangerous to him & where he never felt listened nor respected as a human being
The empath often come from toxic families where he always had to adapt & tried to not be hurt nor diminished & the only way for him to survive, wasn’t to attack the others but to understand, observe & feel them SO well that he could manage to love the close people who hurt him , despite the mistreatment they had to endure. In order to not suffer neither
As everyone speaks about narcissists, I d like to raise awareness about the fact that being an empath isn’t a gift. It’s also a coping mechanism
People see me as a gifted person cause I can read in the mind of people & I can feel everything they feel, therefore know them quite quickly, without even speaking. Yet that is also a terrible work for me cause it’s actually exhausting to manage my feelings & all the other ones feelings & emotions at the same time
If I am a solitary person, it’s because I have to protect myself of everything I feel when I m surrounded by the croud
I feel, I see, I listen, I smell, I receive way too many informations in crossing someone s eyes & Its overwhelming
Obviously we could say it gives the quality of humanity but never believe an empath doesn’t have some work to do in order to heal
An empath is a person who s hypervigilent since childhood & suffers too
